About

At Share Upstate we provide support for parents in Upstate, South Carolina that have experienced miscarriage, infant loss, or stillbirth through monthly meetings, an annual Walk to Remember, and online support.

Monthly Meetings

Share Upstate Pregnancy and Infant Loss support group meets on the third Tuesday of each month at St. Michael’s Lutheran Church (2619 Augusta St, Greenville, SC 29605) from 7–8:30 pm.

What to Expect

Our group includes mothers, fathers, and grandparents that need support after experiencing the loss of a baby. You are welcome to bring a friend or family member for support. Due to the sensitive nature of our meetings, we do not allow children including infants. Giggles Drop-in Childcare is located five minutes away and offers evening childcare options.

Our meeting themes rotate between guided discussion, speakers, and crafts. Refreshments are served at each meeting. In November, we traditionally have a chili dinner. In December, we create ornaments in memory of our babies — children are invited to this special annual meeting.

For more information or to be added to our mailing list, please contact us at shareupstate@gmail.com.

Meeting Guidelines

  • Each of your experiences is unique and valid. No one is here to criticize or analyze.
  • Feel free to share or not to share your feelings and experience.
  • You may have strong feelings to express, yet we ask that you refrain from profanity.
  • It is okay to cry — tissues are available. Please be sensitive to those around you.
  • When sharing difficult experiences with hospitals or organizations, please do not use names.
  • Please maintain confidentiality by not sharing names or information from our meetings or social media groups.

Walk to Remember

Each October, we host a Walk to Remember and Memorial Service in memory of our children. All family and friends are invited. Our service includes tributes, speakers, and a symbolic walk, concluding with a special reception.

Online Support

We help members gain support outside monthly meetings through a private Facebook group. To join, request to join Share Upstate on Facebook. All members must answer group questions before approval. Questions? Email shareupstate@gmail.com.